Let's face it: Talking about money can be difficult, and a lot of us didn't have anyone showing us the ropes when we started out. When you're trying to take charge of your money, you need to establish who's the boss, so you can own your outcomes and feel great about your successes, too.

Think about your goals (saving for something big, stopping the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle, whatever they might be) and create a plan to reach them. The first step is to make a budget. Think of it as a to-do list for your …